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Sexual Stamina and Premature ejaculation
Premature ejaculation is a problem
that most men will experience at least one time in their lives.
Premature ejaculation is characterized by a lack of voluntary
control over ejaculation that frustrates either partner as he/she is
unable to reach optimal sexual enjoyment. Premature ejaculation
occurs immediately prior to or just after insertion of the penis
into the partner. It is a common complaint and it is estimated that
30% of me regularly suffer from the condition.
There are many techniques and
proposed solutions to the problem of premature ejaculation. We will
touch upon the majority of these techniques and also present some of
the drawbacks of each. Finally, we will provide our recommended
solution in combating premature ejaculation.
1)
The ?stop and start? technique- This
technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes he is
about to ejaculate. At this point, stimulation is discontinued for
about thirty seconds and then resumed. This cycle is repeated until
ejaculation is desired by both partners. This technique has been
found to work in prolonging the sex act in roughly 50% of men.
However, the results often are short lived and less than 25% of
people see positive results three years out.
2)
The squeeze method- This method involves
the man or his partner firmly squeezing the end of the tip of the
penis for 10 to 20 seconds when ejaculation is about to occur. Then
sexual stimulation is withheld for about thirty seconds and then
resumed. This cycle is repeated until ejaculation is desired.
Success rates mirror that of the stop and start technique
3)
Self distraction- This may be the most
popular technique men use to combat premature ejaculation. It
involves thinking about something else during sex- usually something
boring. While this approach may delay ejaculation, it will affect
the intensity of the orgasm and can even result in impotence.
4)
Desensitizing Creams- These creams work
by dulling the sensation of the penis in an effort to delay
ejaculation. While these may be effective, it must be noted that
they decrease the pleasure of sex. Also, unless a man is in a long
term relationship with his partner, it can be uncomfortable to
introduce this into the bedroom.
5)
Masturbation- While masturbating a man
should stop prior to ejaculation and then continue once he feels he
can do so without ejaculating. This is essentially the ?stop and
start? technique done solo.
These methods can be successful in
delaying ejaculation but they don?t attack the heart of the problem.
The key to overcoming
premature
ejaculation is to develop a greater sense of whole-body awareness.
The simplest technique is to become more aware of your breathing.
The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeper during
sexual
activity but most men fight this. You must not try to control your
breathing, but merely let it go and become more aware of your deep
breaths. There is also scientific proof of the benefit of deep
breathing: as you near orgasm, your diaphragm starts to tense- you
can reverse this effect with deep breaths which will relax the
diaphragm. The second important theme is that the man must become
aware of the arousal felt throughout his body. Awareness of arousal
levels is the first step towards mastering them. The key here is to
shut off your conscious mind- you do not want to be thinking about
these things but merely be enjoying the sexual arousal that you feel
in your body. Many men report that by becoming more aware of their
sexual arousal, they are able to reach new levels of pleasure and
stay in this phase for longer before ejaculation. This concept may
seem abstract at first, but as you free your mind from
performance
anxiety and instead focus on your body?s arousal levels, the results
will follow naturally.
The all natural supplement
Zenerect
is a great complement for those seeking whole-body sensual
awareness. It is formulated with the key
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increase your natural sexual arousal.
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